Dating tips for fat guys
If you an overweight man, don't feel insecure about your weight.Instead of thinking whether she likes you or not, try to have a good time and enjoy yourself.
Being someone attracted to bigger guys, it was hard to date for a while because bigger guys tend to be shy/awkward/very self-deprecating.
Speaking as a girl who tends to fall for bigger guys, I think I have some experience on the subject.
While my ideal type is more chubby/burly (think lumberjack), I have dated a few guys on the fat side of things.
I don't mind if you tend to date fat girls, or really even if you get some specific pleasure from being with a fat woman -- but I don't need that to be the first thing you tell me about yourself. " It's announced as if it's supposed to reassure me that they aren't going to take one look at me naked and run, I think? Or maybe it's meant to suggest some kink; like to let me know that he wants to feed me cakes and watch me weigh myself? If you care more about my weight than I do, we're going to have a problem. "You're not the kind of lazy, stupid, disgusting, [insert sizeist insult here] slob who I expect fat people to be," is not a compliment.
Dudes tend to assume that I haven't dated a lot in my life -- or the opposite, that I'm always up for casual sex because I'm desperate for attention.
I'm just more attracted to bigger guys than I am attracted to skinny/muscular guys.